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Sometimes you realize that people care and sometimes it's a punch in the gut to know they don't. "You cant expect everyone to like you" someone once told me. But it hurts or stings just a little bit to realize that someone doesn't.
Often in a social situation when too many people don't like you it starts to hurt, to ache, to pain, to the point where you cant keep it in. It hurts just a little bit to not be in everybody's good books or not have everybody like you.
Some people don't care what other people think. Correction, they let themselves believe it doesn't affect them. They have conditioned themselves differently. For most people it's what they call the so called act of 'giving no fucks whatsoever'.
But what does that mean. you don't care about what other people say or think? So wait you're selfish. So basically you are being encouraged to be selfish. Surely there is something wrong with this logic isn't it.
So wait you are encouraging people to ignore the other and just go along with their own life. you are basically encouraging people to listen to people who tell them exactly what they want to hear. You are telling people that it is okay to talk shit to people because at the end of the day everyone must learn that you must simply put ' Not Give A Fuck'.
This approach may work. But its affect is absolutely temporary. We as humans, as society live for social interaction. Its why social media is so prevalent today. People need to talk to people, know what their friends, acquaintances, even their sworn enemies are doing at all times, who they are talking to, what they are talking about. Even people who brand themselves as introverts are talking for hours to their friends on chat or on phone calls.
So deriving a way of life that is so polar to the way of life is well hypocritical and is also toxic. because you're asking people to be two different people. The person who gives a fuck and a person who absolutely doesnt or is under the impression that they don't. This is how people start to learn to deceive, to lie, to essentially pretend to be something they are not. Its the beginnings of something so toxic it could possibly rip the fabric of interaction between people and the emotions they feel towards each other.